Following your separation or divorce, when you’re starting to date, (perhaps) it might be a good problem to choose (or not choose) between different women. However, a continuing habit dating many women will not allow you to know any one of them very well. Committing to an “exclusive” relationship will. It doesn’t mean you have to get married right away! Here’s an excerpt from a John Gray article:
One of the ways a man starting over pushes love away is to proclaim to himself and his circle of family and friends that he simply “cannot make up his mind,” about a woman he finds, “very attractive, and desirable.” In fact this is not only true of the man starting over, but often of that classic case of the “confirmed bachelor.”
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children posed a problem. The mother gets up and says to the judge that since
she brought the children into this world, she should retain custody of them.
The man also wanted custody of his children, so the judge asked for his
justification. After a long silence, the man slowly rose from his chair and
replied, "Your Honor, when I put a dollar in a vending machine and a
Coke comes out, does the Coke belong to me or the machine?"
