This is a well written and concise article that offers wisdom on pre-divorce, emotional and practical advice and post-divorce advice. I highly recommend you read it!
Divorce is not a routine decision. It is a life changing decision that has repercussions not only on the two people involved, but practically on anyone who cares for one or both of them. Make sure you’ve analyzed your decision alone, then together as well. Divorce should not be emotionally driven and definitely not ego driven. Divorce is not a casual threat in heated marital arguments and should definitely not be something to be fulfilled just because you’ve said it once and can’t back out now. Acknowledge the fact that divorce is not child play. There are marriage counselors who will help you in an attempt at a reconciliation. I urge you to try it at least once before giving up on each other.
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children posed a problem. The mother gets up and says to the judge that since
she brought the children into this world, she should retain custody of them.
The man also wanted custody of his children, so the judge asked for his
justification. After a long silence, the man slowly rose from his chair and
replied, "Your Honor, when I put a dollar in a vending machine and a
Coke comes out, does the Coke belong to me or the machine?"